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Today, many loan providers protect themselves by relying on strategies that reduce lending risk — often at the borrower’s expense. These include:

  • Collateral requirements: Borrowers risk losing a car, home, or other property if they default on secured loans.
  • Legal enforcement tools: Lenders sue to garnish wages or freeze bank accounts.
  • Third-party debt collectors: Loans are outsourced to collection agencies that may be anonymous to the borrower.
  • Lender-centric contract provisions:
    • Borrower late fees
    • Prepayment penalties
    • ACH returned item fees
    • Compounding interest
  • Loan assignment clauses: Lenders sell or assign loans and/or servicing to others at any time, while borrowers cannot transfer their debt.

All these practices are legal and understandable from a lender’s perspective. But they also make lending impersonal, reducing borrowers to numbers and scores. When lending becomes just a transaction, it’s easier to:

  • Impose late fees without real accountability
  • Foreclose on homes without knowing the people affected
  • Pass on confusing contract terms to secondary creditors, servicers or debt buyers who never met the borrower

How Boyledown Does It Differently

At Boyledown Lending, lending is personal — and that’s what makes it meaningful. Like other lenders, we want to reduce risk, but we do it differently: by building smarter relationships grounded in trust, education, and shared accountability.

What We Don’t Do:

✅ No third-party collections
✅ No loan assignments or sales
✅ No late fees, no refund item fees
✅ No hidden terms or variable interest rates

What We Do:

1. One Loan, One Person, One Clear Rate
We make one loan, to one person, with one clear annual percentage rate (APR). We stay involved throughout the loan’s full term.

2. Education Comes First
During the application, you must pass a short test on the loan terms. Research shows that timely, relevant, and actionable financial education reduces defaults — helping us serve you more fairly.

3. You Tell Us Why the Loan Fits
During the application, every borrower must write a brief explanation of why this loan is right for them compared to other options or not pursuing any loan at all. This shows you’ve shopped around and made an informed choice — aligning with the intent of the Truth in Lending Act.

4. We Work With You, Not Against You
If you’re struggling, we don’t send your loan to collections. We talk to you. Because lending is a relationship, not a punishment.

5. We Look Beyond Credit Scores
We don’t make decisions based on credit scores. We don’t even pull credit. Instead we consider your full story — your situation, your future plans, and yes, your debt-to-income ratio — so we don’t give loans that might be unmanageable.

6. We Map the Loan Into Your Real Budget
Most lenders use a simple debt-to-income ratio, which misses important details like:

  • What you actually take home after taxes
  • What you pay for essentials like rent, food, and childcare
  • Whether you’re already stretching every dollar

At Boyledown, we go deeper. We sit down with you to map the loan into your actual monthly budget. If the loan would stretch you too thin, we say no. We’d rather say no than set you up to fail.

7. Loan Fit Checkpoints
We don’t disappear after funding. We check in mid-loan to see how things are going. If life changes, we want to know early — not when it’s too late.

8. End-of-Loan Exit Conversations
When your loan ends, we talk about what worked, what didn’t, and what you learned. Your feedback helps us improve and helps future borrowers.


At Boyledown, we believe lending is more than just numbers and contracts — it’s a relationship built on trust and shared responsibility.

About the Author
David O’Boyle is the founder of Boyledown Lending Inc., a Virginia-based lender focused on relationship-driven, transparent borrowing. He believes lending should be personal — grounded in trust, clarity, and mutual accountability. When he’s not reviewing loan applications or writing about the history of debt, he’s exploring ways to make finance simpler, fairer, and more human.

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